Consent, Freedom, and Stability: The Roots of Love ππ
When we talk about consent, most of us think about a simple βyesβ or βno.β But true consent is deeper than a word β it is the ability to choose freely, without fear, pressure, or dependence.
For consent to be real, each of us needs freedom and stability. Without them, what looks like choice may actually be survival.
The Roots of Stability
Stability means having our basic needs met: food, shelter, safety, health, and dignity. When we are secure in our lives, our βyesβ comes from desire, not desperation. Our βnoβ does not risk our survival.
The Trunk of Freedom
Freedom means being able to move, decide, and speak without control. It is the ability to walk away when needed, without losing our place in the world. Which means we need a world designed resiliently, so no one person is a single point of failure. Freedom makes room for authenticity β to be loved as we are, not as we are forced to be.
The Branches of Consent
Consent is where relationships grow: in romance, friendship, community, and society. It is the flowering of trust, built on the strong trunk of freedom and the deep roots of stability. Without those foundations, connection becomes control.
A World Built on Consent
To build a world where love and care are possible, we must tend the soil: create societies where everyone has stability, protect freedom for all, and honor consent in every sphere of life.
Because real love cannot be forced. It can only grow where freedom and stability allow it to take root. π±